Kids Birthday Party Ideas
The thought of a child's party can fill even the most organised parent with dread! But with a little thought and planning there is no reason why they can't have a celebration to remember - and you can end the day with happy memories... not a migraine!
Pitch it right
One of the most important things to do when planning a party for children is to think about how old they are, what they like to do and how they are likely to behave/cope. So for example a one year old (despite your excitement at them reaching their first birthday!) would probably be overwhelmed by a huge affair. Instead, consider inviting a few close friends or family and keep it low key.
Considerations for different age groups:
- 2 year olds - will probably like dancing and lots of balloons, rather than organised party games. Just invite a few close friends and keep it relatively short
- 3 year olds - can usually cope with simple games such as pass the parcel. Some parents may take the opportunity to have a couple of hours to themselves and leave their children at the party from this age - make sure you have enough adults to supervise
- 4 year olds - have started to appreciate what great fun a party can be. Don't let them get overexcited. Games that require some interaction can now be played
- 5 year olds - vary in their approach to parties - some children are self-conscious at this age, while others can become boisterous. Have more games than you need lined up and include some calming ones. Dead lions is always good for a moment's peace
- 6 year olds - tend to have lots of energy so make sure there is plenty of room. You could involve them in the preparations since most children are a dab hand at painting, cutting and sticking by now
- 7 years plus - children aged seven or more understand rules, so team games can be added. But they still don't like losing so make sure everyone has their moment if you don't want it to end in tears
Making your party stand out
For a party to remember, why not consider adopting a theme. It could be something that your child particularly likes, or be more general. For example:
- fairies
- aliens
- pirates
- animals
- glitter and sparkles
The theme can begin with the invitation and continue through the decorations, food, cake, games etc.
Fancy dress always adds to the fun, but if you think that will be too much, why not go smaller scale with a 'hat party' or one centring around your child's favourite colour.
Checklist for success:
- Get a written invitation out at least three weeks before (include your child's name and age, the party venue and directions, date, start and finish times and ask them to reply so that you can plan for the right numbers. Don't forget to mention any additional requirements such as fancy dress or outdoor wear)
- Make sure your party doesn't clash with any other event
- Be aware of school holidays - it's disappointing for all to organise a party and then find no-one can come
- If you are having a party outside always have a 'Plan B' just in case the weather changes and it pours down with rain
- Reserve some extra help if you think you need it. Remember some children will need help going to the toilet or washing their hands so you don't want to find yourself short staffed
- Be specific about starting and ending times and restrict the party time to no longer than 2 1/2 hours
- If you are hiring a venue or booking an entertainer or activity, re-confirm the booking, giving final numbers, a week before
Finally, relax and enjoy. Remember your child's birthday is time for you to celebrate too!
